Monday, April 12, 2010

Girls Hate It!!

This week my mailbox was full with request from boys, they all wanted me to write about “ways to impress a girl!”

Although there are no such rules and guidelines to make a girl fall for you..but certainly there are things which you should not do,  things which all girls hate. You must understand that each and every girl is special and unique and hence has different tastes and thinking patterns. So, I must warn you that not all of the things mentioned here will hold true for your girl.

  • First of all girls hate spineless guys - those who have no strength of character. They don't hate jobless guys if, you are struggling towards achievement of a goal, your girl will always support you. But if you are the one who's not willing to work-they definitely don't like you.
  • No girl likes to be ignored. You need to make them feel special and important. It's not like that they want you to leave everything and run behind them. Just ask them politely that you have work and they will understand, but this doesn't mean that you ignore your girl to enjoy sports with your buddies.
  • One important point about the things girls hate about guys is– their friends! Yes! Girls hate their boyfriend's buddies. Because guys tend to act like complete idiots when they are with their guy-friends. Girls don't mind guys spending time with their friends as long as the friends don't start hogging all the time and attention.
  • Girls absolutely cannot stand their man ogling at other girls and yes… it really doesn't make the ogling any less annoying if you do it behind their back. Sooner or later, she will find out! Girls hate it when guys try and justify things with lame reasons like “ I was just looking", "We were only talking", a girl will know when you are talking to another girl with ulterior motives.
  •  Boys! Girls know you are different from them. So, please don't try to be one of them. A very sensitive guy can often be perceived as gay. So, quit trying to discuss the new Chanel line of perfumes or shoes.
  • Girls hate it when guys lack respect for them – be it their family, their job, their hobby or their fashion sense. Girls like guys who know how to respect them, because of the simple principle "If he can't respect me, he can't love me".
  • Hygiene is an issue that most girls are very sensitive about. A man without basic sense of hygiene and etiquette is an absolute no-no.

So, there you go. You have a list of things that girls hate about guys. Just love your girl instead of judging her. Pamper her but don't smother her, respect her but don't be her pet, give her enough time end space and you will get yours, treat her right and she will be yours forever.

9 comments:

  1. i think some of ur tips and complaints are directly pointed at me.............gud one though & i will inform avi that sakshi dont like us ...:(

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  2. ur article is short sweet n simple... instead of beatin around d bush or placin ur views from a misandry's perspective u made it more clear for d guys who r yet to taste their share of love... gr8 goin saki...

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  3. True.. Grt sakshi u wrote very well... My gf hates all this... And ya she hates scientist type of guys too... Like me.. Joking..

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  4. cool sakshi....
    such a nice, straightforward, simple article.its really good...
    i hope guys understand something by reading this atleast..
    good work...keep it up...

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  5. well i think its nt abt me and if its abt me then i promise that i gotta keep dat in mind frm nw onwards...thanks....n i told u .....i cn knw u better through this...a new saki coming all together....gr888....keep it up..........love ya

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  6. well good job yr! loved ur post....

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  7. u ve written wat a grl actually feels!!!!!
    nice.. keep going!

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  8. i realy wanna read it takkar but since dont hv much time so m leaving it padhungii tab aapni vichar wykt karungii

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  9. Yaar dese tips are for d once who already hav Gal.... what do u hav in store for d ones who don't hav one???

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